Thursday, February 16, 2012

be cOol ;) smiLe


An adulterer will not commit adultery when he has full faith (in Allah), and a thief will not steal when he has full faith (in Allah)..”
——— Ibn Majah.

Al-Imran,
 ”O ye who believe! Persevere in patience and constancy; vie in such perseverance; strengthen each other; and fear Allah; that ye may prosper.” (3:200)





"SimpLe minds are satisfied by simpListic expLanatiOns." You can’t have goOd ideas, if yOu dOn’t have a Lot of ideas ! :: siMpLe-sHida ::

Love the life you live; live the life you love. :)


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http://hijabirella.tumblr.com/post/16688176650



"SimpLe minds are satisfied by simpListic expLanatiOns." You can’t have goOd ideas, if yOu dOn’t have a Lot of ideas ! :: siMpLe-sHida ::

save for SYRIA!







"SimpLe minds are satisfied by simpListic expLanatiOns." You can’t have goOd ideas, if yOu dOn’t have a Lot of ideas ! :: siMpLe-sHida ::

Friday, February 03, 2012

10 Golden Rules For Being A True Friend



1-Honesty
A true friend is always honest no matter what.
It is your duty to tell the truth, even when you know that the truth may hurt and possibly even cost you your friendship (which it won’t if you follow the other 9 rules below).
Never take something without permission, even if you know that your friend will be okay with it. Just ask for permission first.

2-Reliability
A true friend is someone you can rely on.
When you make a promise you will always honor it, and when you know you won’t be able to stick to your promise it’s best to be honest and tell your friend that you can’t keep to the promise.
If you say that you’ll do something or be somewhere at a certain date and time, then be there no matter what.

3-Respect
A true friend respects time, property and beliefs.
  • Time is respected by not wasting it. Be punctual for appointments and let your friend know if you’ll be late or can’t make it at all.
  • Property is respected by not damaging it. Treat other people’s belongings with care and love.
  • Beliefs are respected by not judging. If you know that your friend has certain beliefs and morals, respect them, even if you don’t agree with them.
4- Bros Before Hoes
Please excuse the expression but I found it very fitting.
Choosing bros before hoes means that you don’t choose a girl or a boy over your friend. Don’t cancel your plans with your friend or let your friend down just because you want to be with someone you’re interested in.
If the guy or girl you are interested in is really special to you, you can always ask your friend first and they’ll likely understand. But a true friend doesn’t drop you to be with someone else.

5-Selfless
A true friend will sacrifice their own comfort or happiness and put you first.
They are selfless and would not do something for financial or material gain if they knew that it would have a negative effect on your life.

6-Loyalty
A true friend you will stand up for you when you need it. Also when you don’t ask them to.
A true friend is not for sale and will never do anything that will compromise your success or happiness.

7-Patience
A true friend is patient with you. They are understanding when things need time to change or get better and won’t judge you even when you make the same mistake over and over. As long as you’re making the effort to get better.


8- Laugh Together Cry Together
A true friend is not a fair-weather friend. They are there for  you in good times and in bad times. A true friend also shares their own success with you when they achieve it.

9-Constructive Criticism
A true friend is not scared to tell you what you’re doing wrong . They’re not scared to seriously intervene if they see that something is seriously bad for you or if you’re going down the wrong path.But they always support their criticism with advice that can help you improve.
Don’t just say “You’re going to go bankrupt with your new business plan”. Tell them why you think their new business plan will fail. E.g. “You’re putting all your money into something that is not real, or there is an expiry date on the products you’re buying and I don’t think you’ll be able to sell even 10% of what you’re buying”.

10- Forgiveness
A true friend has the ability to forgive. Everyone is human and we all make mistakes at times. We may even break one or more of these golden rules of being a true friend, but if you realize that you messed up and you really show that you’re sorry and try to make things right, a true friend will be able to forgive you. (Just don’t mess up in the same way again because there is a limit to forgiveness).


"SimpLe minds are satisfied by simpListic expLanatiOns." You can’t have goOd ideas, if yOu dOn’t have a Lot of ideas ! :: siMpLe-sHida ::

Thursday, February 02, 2012

ying n yang

Yin and Yang Corresponding Energies:

Yin Yang
Dark Light
Matter Spirit
Earth Sky
Female Male
Passive Active
Tiger Dragon
Down Up
North South
Water Fire
Winter Summer
Shade Sunlight
Receptive Creative
Valleys Mountains
Even Numbers Odd Numbers
Moon Sun
Cold Heat
Death Life


"SimpLe minds are satisfied by simpListic expLanatiOns." You can’t have goOd ideas, if yOu dOn’t have a Lot of ideas ! :: siMpLe-sHida ::

Chinese Meaning of Numbers

Now here is a list of Chinese Meaning of Numbers to broaden your perspectives of the potential inherent in numerology:
Zero
Have you ever submerged yourself in sensory deprivation? Give it a try sometime and you'll touch on the expanse of number zero. Zeros are tricky because they are at once everything and nothing. They mark the void, and so therefore their potential in infinite. Because zero represent no-thingness, they have room to express the eternal. Zero is limitless. Zero is the Tao. Zero is inception; that open indeterminate space that is, but cannot be identified.



One
The Tao puts it best: "One begets two" in this little snippet the whole existence of numbers comes marching into our awareness. We can have no more in sequence if we do not first begin with number one. And so, one, in the Chinese meaning of numbers deals with initiation, beginning and conception (zero is inceptive, the precursor to conceiving the numerical lineage.). It's prime, so we know number one holds yang/masculine energy. It's an auspicious number in the Chinese mind. One has a thrusting energy that surges forth new growth and potential. One corresponds with the Chinese zodiac symbol of the Rat. The energy of one rules over the Northern direction in Feng Shui practices.

Two
We've met the father of the children of numbers (number one), and number two is the mother of the numeric empire. She is an even number, so we see feminine/yin energy. She represent balance and the passage of time and so her symbolic implication is legion. In fact, we could say the entire Chinese system of numerology is structured around the number two as we see in Taoist thought, the cosmos is comprised of two forces (yin and yang). But two can be elusive because she is the number of duality. But, from duality comes mitosis (cell division ultimately leading to individuality). Two corresponds with the Chinese zodiac symbol of the Ox, and governs North/Northeast directions in Feng Shui practices.

Three
The first offspring from the union of numbers 1 and 2, number three (san) is forever linked with the sanctity of life, progeny and childbirth. Ironically, three is also associated with endings in the Chinese meaning of numbers. From three, the family of numbers branches out to create diversity and complexity. The Tao tells us of the Great Triad (Heaven-Mankind-Earth) which can be loosely translated to mean the path from obscurity into manifestation. I think this tact is why threes are so pivotal both to the Chinese way of thought and otherwise. Three is the first ripple of metamorphosis . The introduction of a third aspect or ingredient changes the face of energetic lineage (both in numerical and general sense) entirely. The Chinese Tiger is the Chinese zodiac symbol for number three, and East/Northeast is the designated direction in Feng Shui.

Four
I get the feeling of guardianship, structure and grounded-ness in the collective of Chinese meaning of numbers. Indeed, number four is symbolic of Earth to Chinese philosophy and the square (with its four points) is the Chinese symbol for earth. It is also connected with the four cardinal points who are represented in China by four spiritually gifted guardians: The Dragon, Unicorn, Kylin, and Phoenix. They guard the cosmic order of things, and insure stability is maintained in the universe. Taking that concept of mitosis (touched on the number Two entry), we see further division of individuality here, and a settling into the knowledge of how things work. This is an extension of that feeling of security. The number four augurs a concrete sense of things. We begin to find our home in the energy of four. The Chinese zodiac symbol for number four is the Rabbit, and east is its direction in Feng Shui.

Five
Five is a huge symbol for good luck among the Chinese meaning of numbers line-up. And so, we see tons of associations with number five in Chinese myth, philosophy and lore. This lucky number earns its status partly from being a conjugation of the number two (yin) and three(yang). These forces combined together bring out some intense associations: The 5 elements (wood, fire, earth, metal, water) 5 Chinese grains (soybean, wheat, rice, millet, hemp), 5 sacred mountains (TaiShan the Peaceful, HuaShan the Splendid, SonShan the Lofty, HenShan the Balancing, and HengShan the Permanent). We can see from these lists the number five gives a feel of fundamentality - it encompasses a unique mix of elements that strike a cosmic balance. When things are done in the rhythm of fives then the outcome is blessed . A great practice to familiarize ourselves with the Chinese number five is to adopt the founding five Chinese blessings: Wealth, Happiness, Longevity, Luck and Prosperity. The Chinese zodiac symbol for number five is the chinese Dragon and its corresponding direction in Feng Shui is East/Southeast.

Six
The Chinese meaning of numbers takes on a cosmic glow with the number six. To the Chinese way of thought six represents longevity, expansiveness and celestial power. We see this in Chinese designation of the six cosmic points of direction with esoteric directions of "above" and "below" making six points of philosophical concentration. That theme of expansion and metaphysical insight is repeated in the Chinese observation of mankind's 5 senses, with its six sense extending out into etheric understanding. Six also holds the quality of time (or timelessness in terms of space). Both night and day are segregated into six sections in the Chinese calculations of daily time. So when we contemplate the meaning of number six in our lives we are contemplating the perennial mysteries of life contained in celestial power, cosmic focus and the cyclical nature of time. The Snake is the Chinese zodiac symbol for number six, and South/Southeast is its direction in Feng Shui practices.

Seven
Seven is the number of a perfectly completed cycle, as each phase of the moon lasts for seven days (the four phases of the moon form a complete cycle). This may be why so many ceremonies and festivals in China are celebrated on the seventh day - to seal the perfection of the occasion and to commemorate the intention of the event. The theme of time cycles is repeated when we see Chinese philosophy deems the number seven as a symbol of woman-ness (also connected with feminine moon cycles). The idea of perfect timing and the ordering of nature is expressed with the numeric union of the 4 (symbolic of Earth in Chinese philosophy) and 3 ( symbolic of heavenly attribute). Number seven tells us that to everything there is a larger, grander, more divine construct that sustains life. Perhaps that construct is comprised of the energies of the seven Chinese gods of prosperity: Ebisu the god of business, Daikoku the god of wealth, Bishamonten the god of war, Benzaiten the goddess of the arts, Hotei the god of health, Jurojin god of wisdom, and Fukurokuju god of happiness. The Chinese zodiac symbol for seven is the Horse, and South is this number's Feng Shui coordinate.

Eight
The number eight in context of Chinese meaning of numbers represents a feeling of inclusion. Eights are a product of all the numbers that have preceded it, all bundled up in a tight, revolutionary package of balance. This kind of supernatural balance is personified by the eight Xian (Chinese term for spiritually evolved, enlightened, or immortal). Legend states these eight immortals were first humans who overcame the worldly challenges and confines to evolve into spiritual advanced beings. I rather think that's what the path of eight does. The Chinese deem number eight as a number of initiations and spiritual ascension because eights represent the forces within the world of phenomenon. To the Chinese mind, number eight has that "anything is possible" feel to it. The Sheep is the Chinese zodiac symbol, and South/Southwest is the Feng Shui coordinate for number eight .

Nine
If we consider each of these initial numbers as a pathway into ever increasing complexity and higher knowledge, the nine will be our precipice of our understanding. At the apex of our upward count stands the nine, and in Chinese meaning of numbers it is the jackpot of celestial forces. Interestingly, in Feng Shui, nine sections are cordoned off by agricultural land owners; eight sections of land are cultivated, but the ninth section (in the center of the agricultural blueprint) is classified as "god's acre" and is devoted to honor the supreme and sacred. The Chinese meaning of numbers nine is completion and satisfaction. It represents a high standard of celestial congruence. When we reach the philosophical height of number nine we have ascended in esoteric understanding and obtained a cosmic satisfaction. The Chinese zodiac symbol for number nine is the Monkey and its Feng Shui direction is West/Southwest.

"SimpLe minds are satisfied by simpListic expLanatiOns." You can’t have goOd ideas, if yOu dOn’t have a Lot of ideas ! :: siMpLe-sHida ::

What Shape Is Your Personality?


Square:
Organized and a hard worker, you like structure and rules and dislike situations in which you don't know what's expected of you. "Tell me the deadlines and I'll get the job done," you say -- and you deliver. You prefer working alone to teamwork. Logical, you think sequentially -- A, B, C, D. You collect loads of data and file it so information is easy to locate. But you have trouble saying, "I've got enough information," and making a decision.

Rectangle:
You are a seeker and an explorer, searching for ways in which you want to grow and change. You ask: who am I? what is the world about? You are the most receptive of the five shapes to new learning. You are the only shape that's not frozen, and you cause your co-workers confusion when you change from day to day. All people go through rectangular periods when they're in a state of change.

Triangle: A leader, you are decisive and able to focus on the goal. You have confidence in yourself and in your opinions, and you don't hesitate to tell everyone else the way the world is. You can be dogmatic and shoot from the hip. You like recognition and are delighted to tell people about your accomplishments. You can be self-centered and egotistical. You put stock in status symbols. American business has been run by triangles, and this shape is most characteristic of men.

Circle: You are a people person, the shape with the most empathy, perception and consideration for the feelings of others. You listen and communicate well. You read people and can spot a phony right off. You like harmony and have your greatest difficulties in dealing with conflict and making unpopular decisions. You are easily swayed by other people's feelings and opinions. You can be an effective manager in an egalitarian workplace, but have difficulty in political environments with a strong hierarchy. If you're a woman, even if you're not a circle, some circle traits have been conditioned into you.

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Some circle symbol meaning keywords to contemplate:
  • Inclusion
  • Wholeness
  • Focus
  • Unity
  • Nurturing
  • Cycles
  • Initiation
  • Everything
  • Perfection
  • Womb
  • Centering
  • Revolution
  • Infinity
  • Mobility
  • Completion
The circle symbol meaning is universal, sacred and divine. It represents the infinite nature of energy, and the inclusivity of the universe.

http://www.whats-your-sign.com/circle-symbol-meaning.html

http://www.whats-your-sign.com/square-symbol-meaning.html

http://www.whats-your-sign.com/square-symbol-meaning.html 

http://www.whats-your-sign.com/triangle-meaning.html



"SimpLe minds are satisfied by simpListic expLanatiOns." You can’t have goOd ideas, if yOu dOn’t have a Lot of ideas ! :: siMpLe-sHida ::